| Location | Newark Delaware |
| Age | 20 years |
| Cause of Death | Organ Failure |
| Date of Birth | 12/06/1989 |
| Date of Death | 17/06/2009 |
| Visitors | 1,129 since 19/06/2009 |
| Creator |
If you knew Nicholas Zerhusen, you can count youself one of the lucky ones.
Nick started his journey in this life in Newark, DE. When he was one month old his family was told
Nick was born with a condition that would require him to have new liver. So at the very young age of
8 months, Nick made his t.v. debut on AM Philadelphia and Channel 6 news and became the youngest
liver transplant recipient ever at St. Chistopher's hospital in Philadelphia.
Even though Nick's life was filled with doctor's appointments, medications and careful monitoring,
he took it all in stride. His childhood was like all boys who grew up in the 90's...karate,
tee-ball, teenage mutant turtles and family vacations. Nick is from a very large family so there
were many get-togethers for holidays, birthdays and special occasions. Of course since he was the
only boy in the family with 3 sisters, there was the usual sibling in-fighting, but that's what
makes the memories we all cherish.
At the age of 15, Nick delivered the first pitch at the seasoning opening game of the Blue Rocks
game in Wilmington. On a trip to Washington DC with his dad, sisters and Uncle Bubby's family, Nick
was picked to read a speech to the tour group.
Nick loved the North Carolina Tar Heels. He supported them die hard. He was a huge fan of Dwayne
Wade and he loved the game of basketball.
Nick is also quite the traveler. In his short time here he has been to the Bahamas, Dollywood,
Disneyworld (twice) and of course, many family vacations to the beach.
His determination and perserverance has been an inspiration to many of us. A lesson we all can
learn from him when we complain about our daily strifes. In his very short 20 years, this young man
was full of hope, love, compassion and faith.
Nick has always been a supportive brother to Allyson and I. He encouraged us to go for our dreams.
When we slipped up in school or did something bad at home he always talked to us about that. i will
miss my brother alot. He was very unique and i wouldnt trade him. Its a shame that he went through
this in his life but everything happens for a reason and god wanted this. No matter how many fights
i got in with him or how much i said i hated him he was still my brother and i thank god for that. i
love you nick and i know your looking over us and were looking back :).
This is the week i should be seeing you right now. I miss you so much. I miss you everyday. I just wanted you to know i was thinking about you. I love you so much.
3 weeks and one day after passing
i been living my life again . but things will never be the same without you . we never expressed the way we felt when you were here so i am gonna do that now . we fought so so so much . and said things that were hurtful and made fun of eachother . and we might have said to each other " why were you born " but i think deep down we didnt mean it. we are brothers and sisters and thats what we do . i am guilty for sayin stuff out of anger . cause i have relized that i didnt hate you . i am proud of the person you became and what you overcome . Mom goes to your grave alot and talks to you . and im sure dad misses you alot . and people are continuing on with there life . but we still remember you . aunt brenda did a great job always being there for you . and it was a shame that the only way to get the family together like that was in a time like this . and this year i slipped up on my grades . i got caught living in the moment instead of planning for a promising future . i promise that i will always try my best in school . you taught me a life lesson aand i replay it in my head alot . bottom line nick i miss you alot and cant get you dying out of my head . but thats okaay if that is what has to happen . i rather cry everynight remembering you then so be it . and i am proud to call you my brother .
i loveeee youu Nicholas paul zerhusen
Fighter
I had the chance to help take care of Nick, while he was in the hospital. He truly loved his family. He loved his father the most and credited his will to fight to his family and friends. On the day that Nick passed, the world lost a special person, and friend. I wish you peace Nick, rest for you are with your maker, walk beside him and know that while we are sad, we will all remember you as the person and fighter that you are. You truly taught me more then you ould know. I would like to attend Nick veiwing could someone let me know when and where it is. Thank You Elaina
Nick was an inspiration to many people. No matter what he was going through, he stayed strong and always showed a smile. His love and compassion for everything in this world is more than anyone could ever understand. I did not know him very long, but within the past year, I grew close to him & he showed me that people can overcome anything just as long as they set their minds to it. Nick was one of the strongest people I've ever known and I feel like God has blessed me by allowing me to be a part of his life. I know he is in heaven standing with all the angels watching over each and every person that he knew and loved.
Nick - thank you for coming into my life; I love you & miss you & I'll remember you always
For the last nine months Nicholas has been fighting cancer and medical problems from the treatment. Over that time he has touched and has been touched by so many people. I am convinced that the doctors, nurses, specialist, and all others concerned with his care were very instrumental in his positive attitude. I could never find the words or the means to express what it has meant to both he and I. Your sincere care for him eased the tough times and created a peaceful calm that enabled him to continue. As each day brought more difficulties your love grew for him and his for you. When Nicholas passed the special words and feelings expressed were very touching and the hugs healing. I was amazed at the amount of people who came to say goodbye. From all that he was and I am THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart. Nick is better off now, we all know. I would not doubt it if he will soon be lining up guitar hero challenges on the big screen in his new home. Lots of good compitition there I am sure. One last thing I bet the beverages will be flowing. GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
Twenty years ago God blessed and entrusted me with a beautiful son. Over the years you were challenged with many hardships. Regardless of outlook you continued to triumph over each and every one. You always fought the good fight. The joy you brought to each situation was hard to figure for the obstacles were huge, and one could certainly understand if you felt defeated. You refused to give in and grew from them. With each hardship you impressed all that were involved and touched each in a loving way. The
last nine months have been the most rewarding of my life. When you were diagnosed with cancer, you knew tough times were ahead yet it was not going to bring you down. As the cancer progressed and the effects of it and treatments changed your body your will was never broken. For the months to follow I was able to share with you, your life good and bad, and yet you were worried about my well being. Finally God needed you back and how proud he must be, not only because of the person you became but the person you helped me become. Great people are not great by their own accord but by others. It has been days since you've passed yet memories of you, your thoughts and actions continue to bless all that knew you. You are free now and will never suffer again. The love for you on this earth is impossible to measure. Be aware that you were loved by so many because you loved so many. Good bye my son and friend, enjoy the peace that your surely deserve. Watch over us all, until we are united again. Dad
This is an amazing tribute to an amazing human being. I had the great pleasure of meeting your brother.. unfortunately, it was at the hospital that we were acquainted. I was Nick's physical therapist and spent a lot of time with him during his frequent stays at AI. I had the privilege of learning so much about all of you and how much he loved and treasured his family.
On today of all days, I know that your father is grieving, but I hope he finds solace in the fact that he raised a wonderful son that touched the hearts of so many.
I know the next few days (and even on past then) will be difficult for your family, so please know that we will all be there to support you and celebrate Nick's brief but meaningful life.
In memory of him,
Sarah K. Jones
Your were the best.
You were the best cousin ive ever had. You were always so full of energy. And so positive. I loved all the family vacations we took, and when you came to stay at grandma's the whole week i was there. Everytime i talked to you it instantly put me in a better mood. I really wish i could have had the chance to talk to you one last time, to tell you how proud of you i was for fighting for so long. I honestly thought you were going to pull through. I prayed for you constantly, and even had my whole church praying for you. You will NEVER be forgotten. I promise you that. I honestly have never met someone who went through so many things like you had too, but i know you stayed strong through it all. I really wish i could be there for your funeral. And i promise every summer we come up to delaware i will go to your grave with a bunch of flowers for you. I really miss you alot and i still cant believe your actually gone. I love you ALOT!
Letter From Heaven
When tomorrow starts without me,
and I'm not there to see;
If the sun should rise and find your eyes,
all filled with tears for me;
I wish so much you wouldn't cry,
the way you did today,
while thinking of the many things,
we didn't get to say.
I know how much you love me,
as much as I love you,
and each time that you think of me,
I know you'll miss me too;
But when tomorrow starts without me,
please try to understand,
that an Angel came and called my name,
and took me by the hand,
and said my place was ready,
in heaven far above,
and that I'd have to leave behind,
all those I dearly love.
But as I turned to walk away,
a tear fell from my eye,
for all life, I'd always thought,
I didn't want to die.
I had so much to live for,
so much yet to do,
it seemed almost impossible,
that I was leaving you.
I thought of all the yesterdays,
the good ones and the bad,
I thought of all the love we shared,
and all the fun we had.
If I could relive yesterday,
just even for awhile,
I'd say goodbye and kiss you
and maybe see you smile.
But then I fully realized,
that this could never be,
for emptiness and memories,
would take the place of me.
And when I thought of worldly things,
I might miss come tomorrow,
I thought of you, and when I did,
my heart was filled with sorrow.
But when I walked through heaven's gates,
I felt so much at home.
When God looked down and smiled at me,
from His great golden throne,
He said, "This is eternity,
and all I've promised you".
Today for life on earth is past,
but here it starts anew.
I promise no tomorrow,
but today will always last,
and since each day's the same day,
there's no longing for the past.
But you have been so faithful,
so trusting and so true.
Though there were times you did some things,
you knew you shouldn't do.
But you have been forgiven
and now at last you're free.
So won't you take my hand
and share my life with me?
So when tomorrow starts without me,
don't think we're far apart,
for every time you think of me,
I'm right here, in your heart.
(Unknown)
Love Mary xxxx
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